Being married is so risky these days.

This breaks my heart. When I first heard this song, I liked it. But then I listened to the words and it made me ill. People often ask why I am afraid to get married...well this is one of the biggest reasons. People listen to the lyrics of this song and feel bad for the girl...the girl that is having an affair with a married man. In almost every novel, every TV show, every movie... at one point there is infidelity. And the media makes this acceptable. I have seen the destruction and pain that adultery causes and it is truly frightening. And I used to just think that I had to worry about men cheating... lately I have come to realize that it isn't just the men that I need to be concerned about. Women are home wrecking left and right too. This is not good...

I suppose that I will just keep waiting around for this man. Oh Jake Ryan, you'd never let me down.